tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36162322423712702062024-03-13T23:17:29.920-04:00XLR8 The Passionate LeaderInspiration and sharing for leaders who are passionate about personal and organizational transformationThomas Bradyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10561098120354297044noreply@blogger.comBlogger84125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616232242371270206.post-2514298370543959362012-06-20T08:25:00.003-04:002012-06-20T08:25:41.603-04:00Living a passionate life - a family's journey<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">This is our first blog post since our son Andrew joined The <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">XLR8</i> Team as a coach and director of
business development.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our daughter, Molly,
while employed with another company, is trying to bring the concepts expressed
in this blog to her life and current job. Please follow us on our new blog site at <a href="http://www.thexlr8team.wordpress.com/">www.thexlr8team.wordpress.com.</a></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We would like to share our journey as individuals and as a
family business to live our vision “for all of us to find the courage to awaken
to the magnificence of our limitless possibilities!”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Fundamental to this concept is living a
passionate life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>To quote Napoleon Hill,
author the seminal book on success in 1937, <u>Think and Grow Rich</u>:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“cherish your visions and dreams, as they are
the children of your soul, and the blueprints of your ultimate achievements.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">As we begin this journey together, we are reviewing our top
five passions, using <u>The Passion Test</u> by Attwood and Attwood as a guide.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It became clear to me that passions are the
source of courage for all of us.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It has
guided me through two very important life transitions – starting The XLR8 Team
in 1996 and delaying my retirement to help my son and daughter more fully
realize their passions.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Andrew reminded me of this in my Father’s Day card.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He called me “the most courageous man he
knows”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The example I set in 1996,
quitting my high-paying executive level job (with a family to support and without
a safety net) gave him the courage to quit his job and trade a paycheck for the
uncertainty of chasing his passion of following in Elaine and my footsteps to
create his version of The XLR8 Team.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It
was this vision or passion if you will, that fueled this high risk / high
reward move in 1996.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I wish I started at
23!</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The most recent transition was delaying my retirement due to
my strong passion to coach/mentor the next generation of transformational
coaches.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I actually re-wrote this
passion about two years ago, but it wasn’t until recently that synchronicities
occurred making the timing right for Andrew, which included a change in his
relationship status, a dynamite new emotional intelligence assessment called
DISCflex, and a burgeoning “movement” called Conscious Capitalism.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">You will be hearing about all of this from different viewpoints
of our family who range from 23, 30, 50 and 65.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>It should be a fun journey, so enjoy and please participate!</span></div>Thomas Bradyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10561098120354297044noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616232242371270206.post-72660096549290367782011-05-15T12:45:00.000-04:002011-05-15T12:46:33.262-04:00XLR8 The Passionate Leader (G + L + F = JOY!!!)<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:trackmoves/> <w:trackformatting/> <w:punctuationkerning/> <w:validateagainstschemas/> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:donotpromoteqf/> <w:lidthemeother>EN-US</w:LidThemeOther> <w:lidthemeasian>X-NONE</w:LidThemeAsian> <w:lidthemecomplexscript>X-NONE</w:LidThemeComplexScript> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables/> <w:snaptogridincell/> <w:wraptextwithpunct/> <w:useasianbreakrules/> <w:dontgrowautofit/> <w:splitpgbreakandparamark/> 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style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">·<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">In the latest <em><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">New Yorker</span></em> magazine, there’s a cartoon that unintentionally reveals the secret of life.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>It’s a father caveman talking to his son saying:<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“When I was your age, things were exactly the way they are now.”<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>The humor, of course, is based on the common perception that 10,000 years ago or more, things moved at a much slower clip than they do today. Any grownup in our world saying nothing has changed in his or her lifetime is likely to be viewed as a bit slow, to put it kindly.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Call me molasses. For you see, I don’t think things have changed one iota since the dawn of time. I’d say the caption on that cartoon needs one more sentence. Then it would read: </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif""> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:center" align="center"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">“When I was your age, things were exactly the way they are now. A world of schmoes figuring out how to love.</span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif""> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif""> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left:.25in;text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Symbol;mso-fareast-font-family:Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family:Symbol"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">·<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Given that as a theme, every once in awhile you get to see your life purpose right smack dab in front of you.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>It happened this week with someone who “graduated” from the <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">XLR8 YOU!!!</i></b> Leadership Excellence Process.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>His top passion is to be spiritually connected to God and nature with a marker not to be afraid to love.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Here is what he wrote – <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">It’s OK to love.</i></b></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif""> </span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left:.25in;text-align:justify"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">This experience has opened up the door to my heart.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I have rediscovered myself - spiritually and physically.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>For the first time in a long time, I am comfortable just being me.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>During this process, I discovered that I’m not a bad guy.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I am worth making time for.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I am worth taking care of.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>This time and attention has ultimately helped me understand and love others at a whole new level.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>The more I care for and help others, the more I am rewarded.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>This realization has made me a better father, husband and leader.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>None of this progress would have been possible if I had not first focused on reconnecting with myself.</span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left:.25in;text-align:justify"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif""> </span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:center" align="center"><span 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pre-quill, and I believe it should be required reading for anyone aspiring to be a leader.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Stephen Covey has been credited with saying:<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“start with the end in mind” as it relates to writing your mission statement.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I believe the same is true here – this is where we need to be headed in our leadership journey.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:navy"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:navy">It just so happens that there are 10 truths and truth #10 is “Leadership is an Affair of the Heart”.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>With all due respect, I would have made it the #1 truth.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>As they write, “Love is the Soul of Leadership” and as our client above discovered, it starts with YOU!!!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Loving YOU!!!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:navy"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:navy"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:navy">As a fellow schmoe, it takes a lifetime to figure out and practice. </span></p>Thomas Bradyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10561098120354297044noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616232242371270206.post-53251746941428482322011-04-21T10:01:00.001-04:002011-04-21T10:01:53.332-04:00XLR8 The Passionate Leader (G + L + F = JOY!!!)<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:trackmoves/> <w:trackformatting/> 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Inspiration:</span></u></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><span style=""> </span>Insight from a recent daily quote from Abraham-Hicks Publications </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">“The best thing you could do for anyone that you love is be happy! <span style=""> </span>And the very worst thing that you could do for anyone that you love, is be unhappy, and then ask them to try to change it, when there is nothing that anybody else can do that will make you happy. If it is your dominant intent to hold yourself in vibrational harmony with who you really are, you could never offer any action that would <b style="">cause anybody else to be unhappy.”</b></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></b></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">For those who like “happy songs”, take 3 minutes to listen to <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=owlQxWQn54Y%20">Song Inside (click)</a> from Wayne Dyer’s 2009 movie, <u><a href="http://www.dyermovie.com/">The Shift (click)</a></u></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b><i style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">XLR8 YOU!!! </span></u></i></b><b><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">– An invitation to our</span></u></b><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> vision:</span></u></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">For all of us to awaken to the magnificence of our limitless possibilities.</span></i></b><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"></span></u></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">We just completed another <i style="">XLR8 YOU!!!</i> Leadership Excellence kick-off week @ Bristol Harbour.<span style=""> </span>We now have the distinct pleasure of working with these people for the next 18 months or so.<span style=""> </span>When you talk about happy, these weeks are truly a source of joy and happiness for us all!</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">We start off on Monday morning with the “Lifeline” exercise, which can be found in <a href="http://www.valuescentre.com/resources/?sec=books__learning_modules">The New Leadership Paradigm - Leading Self Booklet (click)</a>.<span style=""> </span>It is such a simple exercise, but can be very powerful.<span style=""> </span>If you haven’t done it, it’s very simple.<span style=""> </span>If you have, find it and update it to the present.<span style=""> </span>Here’s how it goes.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Purpose:<span style=""> </span>To uncover and understand the events that have defined who you are today</span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> </p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Objective:<span style=""> </span></span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";" lang="EN-GB">To determine what is important to you in your life – now and into the future.</span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;" lang="EN-GB"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;" lang="EN-GB">Instructions:</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;" lang="EN-GB"><span style=""> </span> </span></p> <ol style="margin-top: 0in;" start="1" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";" lang="EN-GB">Draw a horizontal line on a piece of paper (landscape), approximately one third down from the top. This line represents your life from birth to death. Mark where you are right now with your age. Leave room for the part of your life that is as yet unlived. </span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";" lang="EN-GB">Mark above the line, with approximate dates, the most significant life changing events that you have experienced—your successes, your moments of greatest joy. </span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";" lang="EN-GB">Mark below the line, with approximate dates, the most significant life changing events that you have experienced—your challenging times, your moments of sadness.</span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";" lang="EN-GB">Write brief notes against each event indicating how this experience impacted you, what you learned about yourself, and what strengths/qualities showed up in you. Jot down how you changed or your relationships changed as a result.<span style=""> </span>Write down the values that became more important to you and the values that became less important to you after each significant experience. </span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";" lang="EN-GB">When you have finished, look for common “positive” and “negative” themes, qualities and values. </span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";" lang="EN-GB">If you have someone you can share with, take 20 - 30 minutes to tell them your life story and what you believe you have discovered from carrying out this exercise. If you are listening to the story, you may ask clarifying or probing questions, but do not speak of your own experiences. When you have finished, ask the person who has been listening to summarize what they heard and provide any comments or insights they might have.</span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";" lang="EN-GB">Summarize what you have learned about yourself. Based on what you learned about yourself, write down the themes/qualities/values - positive and limiting - that are consistently showing up in your life. </span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";" lang="EN-GB">Write down what qualities and values you think are important for you to embrace between now and the end of your life. </span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";" lang="EN-GB">Complete the worksheet.</span></li></ol> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">We start with this because first and foremost, people who choose to follow us want to know who we 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style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Since my previous attempts have been unsuccessful, I chose a local Transcendental Meditation coach to help me.<span style=""> </span>I came across TM through the <a href="http://www.davidlynchfoundation.org/">David Lynch Foundation for Consciousness Based Education and World Peace (click)</a>.<span style=""> </span>If you go to his website, there are some remarkable results from a variety of different applications - schools, military, prisons, at-risk children, etc.<span style=""> </span>Most recently, Dr. Oz came out with his views on how TM can help reduce stress which leads to numerous illnesses.<span style=""> </span><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nx7YoK860Cc">See video (Click)</a><span style=""> </span>There are many YouTube videos from very successful people who have found benefits from meditation.<span style=""> </span>Quit complaining about stress and do something about it!</span></li></ul> <p 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- the foundation step of the <u>New Leadership Paradigm</u>.<span style=""> </span>You have heard me say that we are all leaders - starting with “<i style="">leading our life</i>.”<span style=""> </span>Over the last few years, I have used and coached “The Passion Test” process for people to clarity and focus on what they really, really, really, really….want.<span style=""> </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">I’ve been reminded of an early experience which made me think about this.<span style=""> </span>I turned 64 on Saturday, and for the last several weeks, the Beatle’s tune <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eCss0kZXeyEWhen%20">When I'm 64 (Click)</a> has been playing in my head.<span style=""> </span>I didn’t remember many of 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Combining powerful interviews with the leading scientists in happiness research and real life stories of ordinary and extraordinary people around the world, <b>HAPPY</b> uncovers the secrets behind our most valued emotion.</span></li></ol> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Elaine and I wish you all a wonderful holiday season.<span style=""> </span>Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!!<span style=""> </span>See you in 2011.</span></p>Thomas Bradyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10561098120354297044noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616232242371270206.post-76852744893495972022010-11-21T21:59:00.001-05:002010-11-21T21:59:25.510-05:00XLR8 The Passionate Leader (G + L + F = JOY!!!)<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> 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(click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:</span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“When I wake up in the morning I plan for a good day.<span style=""> </span>My anticipation attracts good experiences to me.”<span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Last night, Elaine, Andrew and I were playing cards.<span style=""> </span>As we were jibber-jabbering, someone said something that made us all belly laugh.<span style=""> </span>Over the course of the evening, we laughed like this several times . . . you know the kind . . . laughing so hard your belly shakes and tears come to your eyes.<span style=""> </span>I thought to myself:<span style=""> </span>“Wow, I could sure use more of that every day”!</span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">So this morning, right on queue, I get this e-mail from Simple Truths with the subject line:<span style=""> </span>“A movie to brighten your day . . .”.<span style=""> </span>Did you know that laughter is one of the simple joys in life; and recent studies say we need 12 laughs a day <b style="">just to stay healthy.<span style=""> </span></b></span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";" lang="EN">Well, this little three-minute movie is our contribution to your good health.<span style=""> </span>Just sit back, turn up your speakers and take a little vacation . . . on us!<span style=""> </span>Just “<a href="http://www.thelaughtermovie.com/?cm_mmc=CheetahMail-_-FR-_-11.19.10-_-LVACMovie%20">click here</a>” to watch.<span style=""> </span>Wake up every day with the intention to laugh at least 12 times!<span style=""> </span>I know I have a ways to go.</span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b><i style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">XLR8 YOU!!! </span></u></i></b><b><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">– An invitation to our</span></u></b><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> vision:</span></u></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">For all of us to awaken to the magnificence of our limitless possibilities.</span></i></b><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"></span></u></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">WHAT ARE YOU DREAMING?!!!<span style=""> </span></span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">More importantly, are you on a path to realize those dreams?<span style=""> </span>Watch this one-minute video <a href="http://www.spiritualcinemacircle.com/luminary?utm_source=Email&utm_medium=SCCspot&utm_campaign=SCCSPOTEmail">click here</a> by Marcia Wieder;<span style=""> </span>“America’s Dream Coach.”</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">I ask you this now because I want our 2011 to be the best year ever.<span style=""> </span>I say “our” because we will be able to accomplish this best by doing it together.<span style=""> </span>Starting in 2011, I will be offering a refresher on the <i style="">XLR8 YOU!!!</i> Leadership Excellence process that emphasizes your <b style=""><i style="">authenticity</i></b>.<span style=""> </span>I believe the clarity and focus of your authentic self is fundamental to personal and professional leadership success.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Most of you who have worked with Elaine and me over the last 10 years, came away with a heighted sense of your authentic self following your week-long leadership experience.<span style=""> </span>Remember our measurement system that consists of:</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 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justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">My guess is that most of us have not kept up with a periodic review of these measures.<span style=""> </span>Indeed, I have stated to our recent “graduates” that if we leave you with anything from our coaching, it is the desire and habit to keep updating and revising these measures over time.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">This statement has inspired me to offer you a forum to revisit this work and keep moving in a positive direction to living a life of your dreams.<span style=""> </span>Since we are continuously improving the process, most of you have not been a part of our latest thinking and techniques that will deepen your own work and hopefully make it easier for you to assist others.<span style=""> </span>For those of you who have not worked with us, then we would be honored to get you started.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Between now and the New Year, I will be providing you with some additional background as to why this is important that inspires you to participate.<span style=""> </span>Reading this blog is indeed the first step.<span style=""> </span>Thank you for that.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Let me leave you with 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would like the PDF file of the book summary, e-mail me.)</i></b><span style=""> </span>It is a must read for anyone aspiring to be a better leader.<span style=""> </span>Not because we need to “motivate” people, but rather we need to create a culture that allows people to realize their intrinsic motivations.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">In order to better understand “Motivation 3.0” as Daniel calls it, take 10 minutes to watch this RSAnimate of <span style=""> </span><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6XAPnuFjJc">YouTube-Drive - click</a>.<span style=""> </span>He talks about Type X and Type 1 behaviors.<span style=""> </span>“Motivation 2.0” depends on Type X behavior, which is fueled by extrinsic desires - meaning the external rewards to which that activity leads.<span style=""> </span>Quite frankly, it is what many still think is leadership’s job - to motivate using the carrot and stick approach.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">”Motivation 3.0” is fueled more by intrinsic desires or Type 1 <span style=""> </span>behaviors - meaning the emphasis is less with the external rewards and more with the inherent satisfaction of the activity itself.<span style=""> </span>If leadership wants to strengthen their organizations, they need to move from Type X to Type 1.<span style=""> </span>Ultimately, Type 1 behavior depends on the following three elements:</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: 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Critics</span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">When Kouzes & Posner came out with <u>A Leader’s Legacy</u> in 2006, it immediately became the book we gave to all our “graduates” of the “<i style="">XLR8 YOU!!!</i> Leadership Excellence” process.<span style=""> </span>One chapter that had an immediate impact on our coaching was Chapter 3:<span style=""> </span>We All Need Loving Critics.<span style=""> </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">We use The Leadership Practices Inventory (LPI), their 30-question behavioral assessment, as one of two 360<sup>0</sup> assessments.<span style=""> </span>Their most recent analysis of data from more than seventy thousand individuals found that the statement that ranks lowest from the observers perspective is question # 16:<span style=""> </span>“He (or she) asks for feedback on how his/her actions affects the other person’s performance.”</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">We found the same true was true from our experience with our coaching clients.<span style=""> </span>We asked ourselves how we could help our clients ask “How am I doing?” more.<span style=""> </span>Going forward we tried to emphasize the following:</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span 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style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <ol style="margin-top: 0in;" start="3" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Read Marshall Goldsmith’s audio-tech summary:<span style=""> </span><u>What Got You Here Won’t Get You There</u> (e-mail me if you would like a copy) and utilize <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tFX74GIxca4">Feedforward</a> for quick ways of asking “How can I do better?”.</span></li></ol> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">We are currently participating in a study of these changes with a PhD student in St. John Fisher’s Executive Leadership program.<span style=""> </span>We chose to look 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</span>Hopefully, you can list 10, if not, that’s okay.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">You’ll find that these habits are:<span style=""> </span>easy to do, you love doing them, they are very energizing, and you keep getting better at them.<o:p></o:p></span></li></ol></ol> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <ol style="margin-top: 0in;" start="2" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Now on another blank piece of paper, draw a 4” diameter circle in the middle of the page.<span style=""> </span>Inside, write down your list of your 10 best habits.<span style=""> </span>Over the next week or so, write down those things you do on a regular basis that is not 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(click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“I communicate easily and lovingly with all living beings, great and small, and know that they deserve my love and protection.”<span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">This fits perfectly with a Warren Buffet interview someone sent me this week entitled:<span style=""> </span><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rX2-syAt_HA">The Best Advice He Ever Received (click)</a> <span style=""> </span>He spoke of the biggest lesson he received from his father about unconditional love and that when you offer it to your child, you are “90% of the way home.”<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">It made me wonder about offering it and accepting it.<span style=""> </span>In my own family of origin, it was offered to all four of us, but only two of us accepted it.<span style=""> </span>It has been the difference in the quality of my life, and hopefully, I passed it along to my children.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Lastly, do you love yourself unconditionally (the “L” in my formula)?<span style=""> </span>As Warren states, it’s not uncritical love and there may be days when you don’t feel like it, but you know that you can always come back.<span style=""> </span>For those who don’t get or accept their parent’s unconditional love, it’s a long, difficult road, but one worth taking.<o:p></o:p></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: 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(click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“I am totally free to choose thoughts of joy.<span style=""> </span>It is my Divine right to do so.”<span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Here are some thoughts of joy that Mike Cullen sent me after last week’s blog related to the book:<span style=""> </span><a href="https://www.positivityratio.com/index.php">Positivity – Top Notch Research Reveals the 3-to-1 Ratio That Will Change Your Life (click)</a>.<i style=""><span style=""> </span></i>It fits perfectly with Tool #10:<span style=""> </span>Ritualize Gratitude in Chapter 11.<span style=""> </span>He dug up an old poem which deserves a place on your refrigerator or happiness list for a period of time.<o:p></o:p></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be yourself..............Have a great day ahead<o:p></o:p></span></u></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p><span style="text-decoration: none;"> </span></o:p></span></u></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be understanding to your perceived enemies.<o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be loyal to your friends.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be strong enough to face the world each day.<span style=""> </span><span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be weak enough to know you cannot do everything alone.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be generous to those who need your help.<o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></i></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be frugal with what you need yourself.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be wise enough to know that you do not know everything.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be foolish enough to believe in miracles.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be willing to share your joys.<span style=""> </span><span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be willing to share the sorrows of others.<o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></i></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be a leader when you see a path others have missed.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be a follower when you are shrouded by the mists of uncertainty.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be first to congratulate an opponent who succeeds.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be last to criticize a colleague who fails.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be sure where your next step will fall so that you will not tumble.<o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></i></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be sure of your final destination in case you are going the wrong way.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be loving to those who love you.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Be loving to those who do not love you; they may change.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Above all, be yourself.<o:p></o:p></span></i></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Just Be Yourself!!!<o:p></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b><i style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">XLR8 YOU!!! </span></u></i></b><b><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">– An invitation to our</span></u></b><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> vision:<o:p></o:p></span></u></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">For all of us to awaken to the magnificence of our limitless possibilities.</span></i></b><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p></o:p></span></u></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Indeed the road to JOY!!! in our formula begins with “<b style="">G</b>” - more clarity and focus on your <b style="">G</b>od, <b style="">G</b>enius, and/or <b style="">G</b>reatness.<span style=""> </span>In other words - just being yourself!<span style=""> </span>The first step towards clarity is writing down what we call your inner guidance system consisting of Unique Ability, Personal Mission and Values, and Passions.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">This was one of the most significant steps for me in starting The <i style="">XLR8</i> Team.<span style=""> </span>In the mid-90’s, I discovered my unique ability using this process:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <ol style="margin-top: 0in;" start="1" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Ask a minimum of 10 friends, family & colleagues:<span style=""> </span>What is my unique ability - why do you have a relationship with me; what is it about me that makes our relationship special.<span style=""> </span>Limit to 2 - 3 words or a short concise sentence.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">On a piece of paper, draw a circle with as many lines as there are people who responded radiating from it - I call this the sundial.<span style=""> </span>In each space, write the 2 or 3 words that had the most meaning from each of your participants.<span style=""> </span>Highlight similar words or themes that belong in your unique ability statement.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Lastly, write a 15 – 20 word sentence that best captures those themes.<o:p></o:p></span></li></ol> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">When I discovered mine - <i style=""><span style="">Enthusiastic, positive, consensus builder who advocates fresh, but often unpopular ideas in a way that leads to self discovery & change – </span></i><span style="">I had no idea it would lead to coaching and The <i 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(click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“I surround myself with positive-thinking people.”<span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">This may be easier said than done for some people given the adage “you can choose your friends, but not your family”.<span style=""> </span>In any event, when you have the choice, who do you spend your time with?<span style=""> </span>If you want more positive experiences in your life, check out who you spend your time with.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Why is this important?<span style=""> </span>I just completed a book entitled:<span style=""> </span>“Positivity – Top Notch Research Reveals the 3 – 1 Ratio That Will Change Your Life”.<span style=""> </span><a href="https://www.positivityratio.com/index.php">Positivity – Top Notch Research Reveals the 3-to-1 Ratio That Will Change Your Life (click)</a>.<span style=""> </span>Positive psychology pioneer, Barbara Fredrickson, Ph.D., introduces readers to the power of harnessing happiness to transform their lives backed up by impressive lab research.<span style=""> </span>The author lays out the core truths and 10 forms of positivity - joy, gratitude, serenity, interest, hope, pride, amusement, inspiration, awe and love - in a book that promises to change the way people look at feeling good.<span style=""> </span>She provides scientific evidence to illustrate her findings that maintaining a 3:1 positivity ratio of positive thoughts to negative emotions creates a tipping point between languishing and flourishing.<span style=""> </span><a href="https://www.positivityratio.com/single.php">What is your Positivity Ratio? (click)</a> <span style=""> </span>Eighty percent of Americans fall short of this ratio!!!<o:p></o:p></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoPlainText"><b><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">PLEASE NOTE</span></u></b><b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">:<span style=""> </span>In response to the last blog posting, </span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Joan Shafer passed along Daniel Pink’s great YouTube video:<span style=""> </span><span style=""> </span><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6XAPnuFjJc&feature=player_embedded">“Drive – The Surprising Truth About What Motives Us”</a> <span style=""> </span>(click).<span style=""> </span>Every leader should know this basic truth.<span style=""> </span>Play it forward.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b><i style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p><span style="text-decoration: none;">
<br /></span></o:p></span></u></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b><i style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">XLR8 YOU!!! </span></u></i></b><b><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">– An Invitation to Our</span></u></b><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> Vision<o:p></o:p></span></u></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">For all of us to awaken to the magnificence of our limitless possibilities.</span></i></b><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p></o:p></span></u></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Thanks to the people who asked where my blog was last week.<span style=""> </span>I took Father’s Day off which was a wonderful celebration at our home with 25 family members.<span style=""> </span>It was the first time in a while where all our adult children were in town.<span style=""> </span>My middle daughter, Molly, gave me a “<u>Chicken Soup for the Soul Book – Thanks Dad”,</u> which I am enjoying.<span style=""> </span>The stories are from children remembering how their Dads said “I love you”, taught them life lessons and gave them moments that last forever, etc.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Like coaching, great parents learn as much form their children as they teach.<span style=""> </span>One story reminded me of when I quit my job to start The <i style="">XLR8</i> Team in 1996.<span style=""> </span>What terrible timing . . . my girls were 16 and 13, and my son was 7 years old.<span style=""> </span>How would we pay for college?<span style=""> </span>We survived – in fact, our last payment was April 1<sup>st</sup>.<span style=""> </span>The best encouragement came from my son, Andrew, in the form of a poem:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">My Dad “<i style="">XLR8s</i>”<o:p></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">My Dad had a job that was really great, but he wants to <b style=""><i style="">XLR8</i></b>.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">XLR8 will be great when my Dad gets a lot of business dates.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">He will charge a big, fat rate, so I hope he doesn’t show up late.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">I really think it must be fate, for my Dad’s new business to <b style=""><i style="">XLR8!!!<o:p></o:p></i></b></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">I tell this story because he helped me as I attempted to keep my own 3:1 ratio on the many days of self doubt and negative thinking.<span style=""> </span>I framed the poem and put it on my office wall along with my “inner guidance system” (unique ability, personal mission and values).<span style=""> </span>In today’s terms, I include them as part of my vision board.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Let me end this week’s posting with another invitation that kept me going in 1999 from Oriah Mountain Dreamer:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living,<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">I want to know what you ache for and if you dare<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><span style=""> </span>to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">if you will risk looking like a fool for love, <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">for your dream, for the adventure of being alive…<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">This is the basis for <b style=""><i style="">XLR8 YOU!!!</i></b> “Leadership Excellence”.<span style=""> </span>It all starts with how you lead your life!!!<o:p></o:p></span></p> Thomas Bradyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10561098120354297044noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616232242371270206.post-36342358251791956122010-06-13T23:13:00.001-04:002010-06-13T23:13:51.876-04:00XLR8 The Passionate Leader: (G + L + F = JOY!!!)<meta equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"><meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 12"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 12"><link rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CTom%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"><link rel="themeData" 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(click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“I am grateful for everything in my life.<span style=""> </span>The last thing I do before I drift off to sleep is to express gratitude for every experience I have had during the day.”<span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">This has been even more poignant since two people my age who I know passed away recently.<span style=""> </span>Both were doing what they loved to do up to the very end.<span style=""> </span>One was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer last June, and because he loved to write, he created a blog to help himself and others cope with what turned out to be a terminal illness.<span style=""> </span>Check it out at <a href="http://www.jaygallagher.blogspot.com/">www.jaygallagher.blogspot.com</a>.<span style=""> </span>The second was a former champion body builder who I met at the gym and knew casually in high school.<span style=""> </span>He was always helping people with their fitness, including volunteering, as a strength coach to our local high schools.<span style=""> </span>He had a massive stroke in the locker room and never recovered.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">It just makes me even more committed to the “L” in my formula: loving yourself by doing what you love to do in service of others who love what you do.<span style=""> </span>I remind myself every day of what that means by reading my “happiness list” every morning when I get up and every evening before I go to bed.<span style=""> </span>It is my list of a dozen things I want to bring more fully into my life every day.<span style=""> </span>Thanks Jay and Max for making that a deeper experience.<o:p></o:p></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
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<br /></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">How I arrived at this statement forms the basis of my formula G + L + F = JOY!!!<span style=""> </span>I suppose it started because of my own frustration over two of the most overused words in business today - engagement and empowerment.<span style=""> </span>Not only was I feeling less of it, I know the people I lead felt the same.<span style=""> </span>That’s because businesses think that “they need to do something” to engage or empower us.<span style=""> </span>Alfie Kohn’s speech:<span style=""> </span>“The ABC’s of Motivation” put it in perspective for me.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">In the mid 90’s, I attended a luncheon where he spoke of his book:<span style=""> </span>Punished by Rewards: “The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A’s, Praise and Other Bribes.”<span style=""> </span>Since being a coach was about motivating people, so I thought, I listened with great interest.<span style=""> </span>He challenged contemporary thinking that while manipulating people with incentives may seem to work in the short run; they ultimately fail and even do lasting harm in the long run.<span style=""> </span>Drawing from hundreds of studies, he demonstrated that people actually do inferior work when they are enticed by money, grades or incentives.<span style=""> </span>The more we use artificial inducements to motivate people, the more they lose interest in what we are bribing them to do.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">I took copious notes that day which I have sent to numerous people over the years.<span style=""> </span>I read his book with great interest and confirmed my beliefs that current organizational practices are just another example of insanity – doing the same thing, maybe even more of it and expecting greater results.<span style=""> </span>Long lasting motivation is an inside job (intrinsic)!<span style=""> </span>The outside (extrinsic) motivators we can provide in organizations as leaders must be aligned with the inside motivators we discover for ourselves and encourage that discover in our people.<span style=""> </span>These motivators are captured in Alfie’s ABC’s of motivation.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: 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spend their annual salaries in their personal life but need boss approval to spend $25!<b style=""><u><o:p></o:p></u></b></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p><span style="text-decoration: none;"> </span></o:p></span></u></b></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">B</span></u></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"> = Belonging.<span style=""> </span>People need to feel a part of something larger than themselves.<span style=""> </span>Organizations need to provide a compelling vision, mission and values along with leadership that inspires them to follow them with integrity.<span style=""> </span>More importantly, however, each individual has to figure out for themselves why they are on this planet and how their organization gives them a place to live it.<b style=""><u><o:p></o:p></u></b></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p><span style="text-decoration: none;"> </span></o:p></span></u></b></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">C</span></u></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"> = Competence.<span style=""> </span>People want to be good at something.<span style=""> </span>Organizations need to better match people with their skills and talents.<span style=""> </span>We need to help people develop their “G” (Genius, Greatness), because we all have it inside and once discovered, developed and practiced, organizational productivity and engagement soar.<b 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(click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<br /><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“Life is an exciting surprise.<span style=""> </span>I wake up in the morning looking for positive experiences, and I find them in the most unexpected places</span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">.”<span style=""> </span><span style=""> </span>As I mentioned last time<b style=""><i style="">, </i></b>I just returned from the second symposium of <a href="http://www.soulpurposeinstitute.com/">The Soul Purpose Institute</a> presented by Steve D’Annunzio.<span style=""> </span>He is a strong advocate of a “prosperity hour” every morning consisting of exercise and meditation, which he refers to as “spiritual practices”.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">When he first talked about it about a year ago, I said no way, I don’t have that kind of time.<span style=""> </span>Over the last year, I have gotten up every morning do my abs and arms exercises.<span style=""> </span>I also read over my happiness list now, my <i style="">XLR8</i> YOUR POWER statement (Steve calls it “reality statement”) and meditate.<span style=""> </span>It is such an amazing way to start the day.<span style=""> </span>Start small, I did.<span style=""> </span>But, just start!<o:p></o:p></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">I am on a mission to learn and teach to lead from love.<o:p></o:p></span></u></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">This is another statement from my <i style="">XLR8</i> YOUR POWER statement. I mention it this week since I had the opportunity to see it in action first hand this week.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">A former client of mine recently accepted a new position in a community closer to her family.<span style=""> </span>She isn’t taking the job as much for the relocation, but because it is her next big breakthrough goal.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">When I first met her, she was given a promotion to the corporate offices after an extremely successful turn-around operational assignment.<span style=""> </span>One of her new areas of responsibility was leadership development and when I started working with her, I knew she got the love-fear equation.<span style=""> </span>Unfortunately, the culture did not support or recognize that as a strength.<span style=""> </span>Eventually, the fear culture created by top leadership lead to her deciding to see what was next for her.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Most of the 150 people at the going away party this week were there to celebrate the love and inspiration she created over the years.<span style=""> </span>During an almost endless video testimonial presentation, I never heard “love” mentioned more about a leader.<span style=""> </span>After she made some brief comments about how much <i style="">each of them has taught and inspired her</i>, more people grabbed the microphone to laugh, cry and thank her for all she did and how she loved them all.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">The best part of this story is yet to come.<span style=""> </span>She accepted a position where she is the top leader, able to create a culture that she is dreaming of and believes in with all her heart.<span style=""> </span>No one deserves this opportunity more.<span style=""> </span>The people she will serve will be in for something special.<span style=""> </span>She will learn a ton 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(click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“I release criticism of myself and others.”<span style=""> </span><span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">I just returned from the second symposium of <a href="http://www.soulpurposeinstitute.com/">The Soul Purpose Institute</a> presented by Steve D’Annunzio.<span style=""> </span>It was such a pleasure being in the presence of someone living his passion and totally in his “<b style=""><i style="">flow”</i></b>.<span style=""> </span>His acronym for this is <b style="">F</b>ully <b style="">L</b>etting <b style="">O</b>mnipotence <b style="">W</b>ork.<span style=""> </span>By definition you cannot be in flow if you are ruled by your inner critic.<span style=""> </span>This inner critic takes energy away from you - literally making you weak.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">I was attracted to the concept of flow since I have just added this statement to my Happiness List as a result of the Halifax Psych-K advanced training:<span style=""> </span><b style=""><i style="">“I welcome changes in my life.<span style=""> </span>My life is a perfect example of synchronicity and flow.” (Far out, man!)<o:p></o:p></i></b></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
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style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">In the first “blank” I had to put down my “soul purpose title.”<span style=""> </span>This wasn’t that easy for me, so I went to my personal mission statement for direction.<span style=""> </span>When was the last time you looked at or revised yours?<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 40.5pt 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Liberating inspiration by enthusiastically coaching people around the world to discover the simple truths that loving ourselves and leading from love will manifest our passions, fulfill our purpose and change the world.<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 40.5pt 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">So I chose “Spiritual Leadership Development Coach”.<span style=""> </span>While I talk about and emphasize love in my work, after listening to Steve, I don’t say it LOUD ENOUGH in large part because I haven’t been able to articulate it as well as I’d like.<span style=""> </span>Steve is a master at it, so let me share a little of his insight.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Everything in our universe is energy in a constant state of vibration.<span style=""> </span>All matter is solidified energy as Einstein proved in his now famous E = MC<sup>2</sup>.<span style=""> </span>Thought waves are also pure energy that “vibrate” – as thoughts, choices, words, and actions – that automatically “attracts” people and events to us that match whatever energy we originally sent.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Positive thought waves create a strong, love energy.<span style=""> </span>Negative thought waves create a weak, fear energy.<span style=""> </span>I can prove this to you by using a simple muscle test.<span style=""> </span>Please ask me to demonstrate this the next time we meet.<span style=""> </span>It will only take a minute.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Science tells us that the average human being thinks 50,000 thoughts a day.<span style=""> </span>In most people, 50% of their thoughts are negative, fear-based thinking, especially the inner-critic mentioned above.<span style=""> </span>Without realizing it we are short-circuiting our own happiness and ultimately our life success.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" 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(click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“In the Infinity of Life where I am, all is perfect, whole and complete.”<span style=""> </span><span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">I chose two quotes this week because they pertain to two new affirmations on my happiness list.<span style=""> </span>The first is<i style=""> “I welcome changes in my life.<span style=""> </span>My life is a perfect example of synchronicity and flow.”<span style=""> </span></i>As I mentioned in my last post in Step #5, I attending the advanced Psych-K workshop conducted by Richard Schultz. (<a href="http://www.wisdomways.net/">www.wisdomways.net</a> & <a href="http://www.psych-k.com/">www.psych-k.com</a>.)<span style=""> </span>Richard attended the March 2010 <i style="">XLR8 YOU!!!</i> Leadership Excellence kick-off week.<span style=""> </span>We are immersing ourselves in each other’s work to take our practices to the next level.<span style=""> </span>He is truly a gifted and master practitioner.<span style=""> </span>These two affirmations were the result of the work I did on a couple of nagging issues in my life.
<br /></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“I am teachable.<span style=""> </span>Life is an education, and I am the student.<span style=""> </span>I am doing the best I can, and every day it gets easier.<span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">My second<b style=""><i style=""> </i></b>new affirmation for my happiness list is <i style="">“I CAN!<span style=""> </span>I learn from all my life experiences including the difficult and painful ones.” </i><span style=""> </span>I read my happiness list three times a day including right when I get up and before I go to bed.<span style=""> </span>These affirmations are so right on for me; they are very motivating.<o:p></o:p></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
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ever have to lose my usual 30 – 50 pounds again.<span style=""> </span>It’s a little scary to make that commitment, but what risk isn’t!<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">The other risky part is talking about how Psych-K is an integral part on manifesting your passions and breakthrough goals.<span style=""> </span>I have passed out several <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0975935402/ref=oss_product">PSYCH-K…The Missing Piece (Peace) in Your Life</a> (Click to order on Amazon).<span style=""> </span>When I went to the Part I training in June 2007, I chickened out when I came back home, thinking that people would believe it was a little far out (A popular phrase back in the day … Far out, man!).<span style=""> </span>This time around I have had several takers.<span style=""> </span>It’s not for everybody, but I’ll never know unless I approach the subject.<span style=""> </span>THANKS, VOLUNTEERS!!!<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">I’m taking a risk because I believe it has an important place in the coaching process.<span style=""> </span>I truly believe that this will be the last couple of chapters in my book and truly differentiate our coaching.<span style=""> </span>While I knew it in 2007 as well, I guess it wasn’t the right time for me.<span style=""> </span>Since Richard is writing a book of his own on his incredible experiences with Psych-K, I even have a great editor for those chapters.<span style=""> </span><i 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10]> <style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-priority:99; mso-style-qformat:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman","serif";} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Weekly Inspiration:</span></u></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><span style=""> </span><a href="http://www.hayhouse.com/details.php?ref=LHWEB&id=4310">You Can Do It! (click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“Life brings out the best in me today.”<span style=""> </span><span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">I chose this one<b style=""><i style=""> </i></b>because I fall short of this often and today was another one of those days.<span style=""> </span>I got upset with something and not only couldn’t let it go but carried it along for a while to other situations.<span style=""> </span>Oh well … a work in progress.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">This situation matches one of my affirmations on my happiness list … ”I recognize my emotions for what they are … teachers of my inner wisdom.”<span style=""> </span>I know what the situation that triggered this emotion - <span style=""> </span>an important meeting in the morning.<span style=""> </span>The emotion is fear - specifically the fear of rejection.<span style=""> </span>I need to remember what I’ve recently told others.<span style=""> </span>Rejection is God’s protection.<span style=""> </span>I’ll find out whether I’ve met a leader who is passionate about personal and cultural transformation, which is my #2 passion.<o:p></o:p></span></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Breakthrough Goals – It’s all about change!<o:p></o:p></span></u></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">I hit a breakthrough goal for myself this week.<span style=""> </span>I’ve been working on in it this time for the last five years - more steadfastly the last 18 months.<span style=""> </span>It’s weighing 165 pounds and now the continuation of this goal is keeping my weight under 170.<span style=""> </span>I mention it because it took every coaching tool I have at my disposal to make the weight and will take them all on an ongoing basis to maintain this goal.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">For me, weight gain and loss has been a life-long energy drainer and distracter.<span style=""> </span>I have gained and lost up to 50 lbs (usually 20 – 30) at least a dozen times.<span style=""> </span>The reason I mention it here is for you to pick a breakthrough goal and consider the following steps that I have taken to realize it.<span style=""> </span>Here’s how this happened for me.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Step #1:<span style=""> </span>The Passion Test.</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><span style=""> </span>My #1 passion in 2006 was to “bring peace and happiness to myself and those I love”.<span style=""> </span>One of my “markers” was to lose 20 lbs and keep my weight under 170 lbs for the rest of my life.<span style=""> </span>At the time, I didn’t call this a breakthrough goal.<span style=""> </span>I’ve lost the weight so many times, I figured it would be no problem.<span style=""> </span>When October 2008 came around and I had gained 10 more lbs, I was very discouraged.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Step #2:<span style=""> </span>My Vision Board</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">.<span style=""> </span>I was flying to Aruba for vacation when I saw a picture of Dr. Jeff Life in the USAirways magazine.<span style=""> </span>It was his bare-chested picture in jeans that caught my eye.<span style=""> </span>He had a chiseled physique and he was 67 years-old!<span style=""> </span>When I got home, I found his picture on the internet and put it on my Facebook and desktop vision boards.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Step #3:<span style=""> </span>Continuous Learning. <span style=""> </span></span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">I read a couple of books:<span style=""> </span><u>The Influencer</u> and <u>What Got You Here Won’t Get You There</u>.<span style=""> </span>Out of the latter book came the ideas of a peer coach and what I now call your happiness list.<span style=""> </span>Out of the former book came the research about to 2 – 3 key behaviors that make the difference in any change initiative - personally, professionally and/or organizationally.<span style=""> </span>Weight loss was one of the topics and their research drew the following conclusion.<span style=""> </span>Those people who lost weight and maintained that weight loss did the following:<span style=""> </span>weighed themselves each morning, ate a healthy breakfast and exercised in some form at home every day.<span style=""> </span>That statement is now at the top of my happiness list.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Step #4:<span style=""> </span>Persistence & coaching. </span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><span style=""> </span>I did well for a while (lost about half of the weight) but wasn’t making enough progress.<span style=""> </span>I then reframed my goal to “fitness” on top of the weight loss goal.<span style=""> </span>When my son (a devoted “gym rat”) was home for Christmas break, I asked him to coach me.<span style=""> </span>I joined a gym and he set me up with a series of five focused weight training routines that I have kept up religiously.<span style=""> </span>He’ll be home for the summer, and he’ll help me get to the next level.<span style=""> </span>I also began coaching others to better “fitness” which will keep me on track.<span style=""> </span>I also took my own Dr. Life picture for my vision board with the caption “give me another year!”<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Step #5:<span style=""> </span>Psych-K.<span style=""> </span></span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Before my last weight loss push in mid-March, an Isagenix 30-day cleanse, I had a Psych-K consult with a colleague of mine who is expert in this change methodology.<span style=""> </span>In a nutshell, it is a way to change subconscious beliefs that keep us from accomplishing our goals.<span style=""> </span>I took his “Part I” workshop a couple of years ago but didn’t practice it with regularity.<span style=""> </span>After his consultation, I sense a profound change in my approach to this goal.<span style=""> </span>Now that I have achieved it, I believe that changing this belief with help me sustain it.<span style=""> </span>I am going to Halifax for his “Part II” advanced workshop next week and committed to integrating this technology into my coaching practices.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Step #6:<span style=""> </span>My next breakthrough goal.<span style=""> </span></span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Writing my book – XLR8 The Passionate Leader.<span style=""> </span>I’m pulling out all the stops.<span style=""> </span>It will be the focus of next weeks’ Psych-K work - what subconscious beliefs are keeping me from accomplishing this goal?<span style=""> </span>Stay tuned!!<span style=""> </span>If these things work for this <i style="">work in progress</i>, they will work for you!<o:p></o:p></span></p> Thomas Bradyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10561098120354297044noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616232242371270206.post-1939203995069337762010-04-04T23:39:00.001-04:002010-04-04T23:39:58.510-04:00XLR8 The Passionate Leader: (G + L + F = 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(click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“I watch what I think and what I eat and my life improves.” <span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></li><ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="circle"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">First of all, I hope you had a Happy Easter if you celebrate this Holiday.<span style=""> </span>We had a big family gathering with waaaay too much food, and I certainly ate too much.<span style=""> </span>Not as much as I would have in the past, I might add, since my renewed focus on fitness.<span style=""> </span>I made sure I did my exercising and thought about eating smaller amounts of the many wonderful dishes and sweets available.<span style=""> </span>So how about you?<span style=""> </span>More importantly, what are you going to do tomorrow?<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Well, as I’ve stated in the past, I’ll read the #1 item my happiness list tonight and again in the morning – “<i style="">I weigh myself, eat a healthy breakfast and exercise at home and it motivates me.”</i><span style=""> </span>I know what I weighed this morning, it will be more tomorrow, but I will be motivated to not let up next week until it is back to today’s number.<span style=""> </span>Join me!<o:p></o:p></span></li></ul></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.75in; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.75in; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
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style=""> </span>It turned out he was a very wise man.<span style=""> </span>Thanks, Steve.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Anyway, I’m not sure why I asked my client to read it, but it seemed to fit his situation.<span style=""> </span>His area had been the “dark hole” you were sent to and often never emerged out of.<span style=""> </span>However, several years of new leadership and hard work and numerous changes had changed that.<span style=""> </span>The only problem now is that the next wave of changes is making the previous changes look small.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Well, Steve Frangos faced the challenge that if Black & White Film didn’t turn around, Kodak was going to sell that division.<span style=""> </span>While there were many lessons in Steve’s book, my client took these three as being most important is his situation:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <ol style="margin-top: 0in;" start="1" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Communicate, communicate, communicate and then communicate some more.</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"><span style=""> </span>He felt this was particularly important 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(click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“My work is deeply fulfilling for me.<span style=""> </span>I follow my higher instincts and listen to my heart in all that I do.” <span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></li><ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="circle"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Of course this has to do with the “L” in my formula for happiness – “loving yourself by doing what you love in service of those who love what you do.”<span style=""> </span>We are coaching several people who are stuck in jobs they don’t love mainly for financial security.<span style=""> </span>All I can say is … I left a six-figure job in 1996 with three kids - 17, 14, & 8 - to do what I love.<span style=""> </span>I would hate to think how I would see my life now if I hadn’t done it.<span style=""> </span>At 63, I am now ready to do it again!<span style=""> </span>Don’t play it safe, you are playing small!!!<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Another great example was today’s CBS Sunday Morning.<span style=""> </span>Joy Behar, at 68, says she is at the pinnacle of her career.<span style=""> </span>I don’t care what you think about her “views”, but at forty, she knew many things she wasn’t good at.<span style=""> </span>She finally had the courage to do what she always knew she was meant to do, stand-up comedy.<span style=""> </span>You must believe it, then you’ll see it.<span style=""> </span>Once you do, the world of opportunity opens up.<span style=""> </span>This is best described by a quote from one of our new clients who noted that our leadership retreat was one of <b style=""><i style="">“the best weeks of my life.”</i></b> He went on to say that <b style=""><i style="">“if you don’t go within, you’ll go without.”<span style=""> </span></i></b>Brilliant!<o:p></o:p></span></li></ul></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.75in; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">How do I do better?<span style=""> </span><i style="">XLR8</i>Forward</span></u></b><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">We are now catching up to those participants from our last leadership retreat week from early March.<span style=""> </span>A few weeks ago, I spoke of the question that ranks lowest from the Leadership Practices Inventory (LPI) 360<sup>0</sup> assessment.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">#16. (He or she) asks for feedback on how his/her actions affect other people’s performance.<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">One of the ways to get feedback fast worked great at the retreat.<span style=""> </span>It is based on Marshall Goldsmith’s “Feedforward.”<span style=""> </span><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tFX74GIxca4">(Click to see 4 minute video)</a><span style=""> </span>One of the participants said it was like “speed dating”.<span style=""> </span>After reviewing the DISC self-assessment, each participant chose one area that they would like to improve on and followed Marshall’s process.<span style=""> </span>In 2 – 3 minutes, they received a few ideas as well as helped their partner with a few ideas.<span style=""> </span>In 10 – 15 minutes, they had multiple perspectives and a handful of great ideas.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">The second way is a little more involved.<span style=""> </span>We call it <b style=""><i style="">XLR8</i></b>Forward.<span style=""> </span>First, you pick a particular issue from the 360<sup>0</sup> assessment that you’d like more insight on.<span style=""> </span>Second, you write a short paragraph (preamble) saying why this is important to your leadership development.<span style=""> </span>Third, you think of a time when you actually did it and detail why it was a memorable experience.<span style=""> </span>It is now very easy 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(click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“Life is simple.<span style=""> </span>What I give out comes back to me.” <span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></li><ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="circle"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">At our kick-off Leadership Retreat for the <i style="">XLR8 YOU!!</i> Leadership Excellence process, we read a book summary:<span style=""> </span><u>Napoleon Hill’s Golden Rules – The Lost Writings</u>.<span style=""> </span>He was most known for his book:<span style=""> </span><u>Think and Grow Rich</u>, which was one of the first audio-book sets I purchased. He is the first and foremost motivational author of all time, whose books have sold over 60 million copies worldwide.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">He interviewed hundreds of successful people in the early years of the twentieth century to distill the rules of success that still apply today.<span style=""> </span>One was that <b style=""><i style="">Law of Reciprocation</i></b> will cause people to treat you as well, or as poorly, as you treat them.<span style=""> </span>We are all trying to get people to do what we wish them to do.<span style=""> </span>If you want them to dislike you, you can treat them badly.<span style=""> </span>If you want their respect, their friendship and their cooperation, you can extend them your own respect, friendship and cooperation.<o:p></o:p></span></li></ul></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.75in; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.75in; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
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organization?<span style=""> </span><b style=""><i style="">YOU!!!<span style=""> </span></i></b>When asked, people would like to work in an average organization with a great boss, rather than in a great organization with a lousy boss ~ unless, of course, they can transfer out!<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">You are more likely than any other leader to influence whether people will stay, perform at their best, wow customers, or be motivated to share the organization’s vision and values.<span style=""> </span>Lots of evidence supports this claim.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> 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<br /><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“I drift off to sleep at night expressing appreciation and gratitude for my life.” <span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Wayne Dyer referred to this as letting positive thoughts <i style="">marinate</i> all night long.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></li><ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="circle"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">We completed another <i style="">XLR8 YOU!!!</i> Leadership Excellence kick-off retreat last week at Bristol Harbour.<span style=""> </span>Over the next month, each participant will be completing their “happiness list” which is read right before going to sleep.<span style=""> </span>I mentioned this about a month ago and listed several of the items on my list.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Where do the ideas for your list come from?<o:p></o:p></span></li><ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="square"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">From the everyday success exercise – focusing on “the present”<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">One of your passions that you’d like more of in your life<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Positive behaviors you are trying to make a habit<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">A leadership practice your people would like to see more of<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Behaviors supporting a value that is important to the leadership character you are trying to demonstrate<o:p></o:p></span></li></ul><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Going over them each morning is a great way to set up your expectations for the day as well.<o:p></o:p></span></li></ul></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 1in; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 1in; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">How do I do better?</span></u></b><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Last week, we were reminded again on how hard it is to get ongoing feedback from the people around us.<span style=""> </span>According to Chapter Three in <u>A Leaders Legacy</u> by Kouzes & Posner, the best-selling authors of <u>The Leadership Challenge</u>, “We all Need Loving Critics”.<span style=""> </span>They found in their study of more than seventy thousand individuals who completed the Leadership Practices Inventory 360<sup>0</sup> assessment, that the statement that ranks the lowest from the observers’ perspective is:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">16. (He or she) asks for feedback on how his/her actions affect other people’s performance.<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;" align="center"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></i></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">It is also our experience in nearly every leader we have worked with.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">During our Leadership Challenge Jeopardy game, one of the answers developed referred to a once-a-month dialogue you could have with each of your direct reports.<span style=""> </span>Have a two-way conversation answering these six key questions:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <ol style="margin-top: 0in;" start="1" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Where are <i style="">we</i> going?<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Where are <i style="">you</i> going?<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">What are you doing well?<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">What suggestions do you have to do better?<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">How can I help you?<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">What suggestions do you have for me to do better?<o:p></o:p></span></li></ol> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">The key is to exchange information about one another.<span style=""> </span>Remember, coaching is not a once-a-year process.<span style=""> </span>Do this at least every month, and you’ll be sure to notice continuous improvements as people become stronger and more capable as a result of being encouraged to learn from their experiences.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
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(click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“I have perfect teachers in my life.<span style=""> </span>I learn something constructive from every teacher in my life, even if it is learning how not to live.” <span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">I wrote my thoughts on this and was going through my e-mail and somebody sent me something that was much better, so here it is.<span style=""> </span>She doesn’t know who wrote this, but I suppose it doesn’t really matter.</span></li><ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="circle"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Rules for being human:</span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></li><ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="square"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">You will receive a body.<span style=""> </span>You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period this time around.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">You will learn lessons.<span style=""> </span>You are enrolled in a full-time information school called” Life”. 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<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Special Edition #2:<span style=""> </span>What is Tiger teaching us?</span></u></b><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">I’m redoing my website.<span style=""> </span>It will start with a very simple message:<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Ultimately, we are all on the planet to find happiness.<span style=""> </span>As leaders, we have chosen to serve others and to leave the world a better place through our work.<span style=""> </span>We would like to invite you to a more <i style="">effortless</i> journey – your “In Search for Adventure,” guided by the formula … G + L + F = JOY!!!<span style=""> </span>First and foremost, our goal is to <i style="">XLR8 YOU!!!</i> and your business with more clarity and focus with your “G” (God, Genius, Greatness).<span style=""> </span>This leads to “L”, loving yourself by doing what you love in service of those who love what you do.<span style=""> </span>In doing so, the “F” is your barometer, since life should be fun.<span style=""> </span>When in sync, it all adds up to pure JOY!<o:p></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Since I’m a sports nut, I watch ESPN and other sports programs.<span style=""> </span>Many say that the only way for Tiger to “come back” is to start golfing and winning again.<span style=""> </span>Is golfing Tiger’s “G”?<span style=""> </span>He certainly is great at it.<span style=""> </span>What if it was his father’s obsession and he simply found the perfect student?<span style=""> </span>My dad wanted me to be an engineer, but flunking out of engineering school due to lack of interest and ability took care of that early!<span style=""> </span>Are you doing what YOU want with your life?<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">These same reporters talk about not really knowing Tiger.<span style=""> </span>I think it’s pretty clear that Tiger doesn’t know Tiger … how could we?<span style=""> </span>This is where his real work lies, gaining clarity and focus around loving himself, then determining how he will take his many gifts and opportunities to serve those who love what he does.<span style=""> </span>The only way to accomplish that is being “clean”.<span style=""> </span>Are you clean?<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p>
<br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">The life that Tiger projected indicated he was having lots of “F”, fun.<span style=""> </span>Now we know that is not the case.<span style=""> </span>His barometer actually could have told him his life was way out of sync, IF he was paying attention.<span style=""> </span>For many of us, we will do something to screw things up, just when we thought we had what we wanted.<span style=""> </span>Guess what, you’ll need to dig a little deeper, but it’s worth it because it will add up to your pure JOY!<u><o:p></o:p></u></span></p> Thomas Bradyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10561098120354297044noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616232242371270206.post-34549865015909438662010-02-21T23:03:00.001-05:002010-02-21T23:03:39.145-05:00XLR8 The Passionate Leader: (G + L + F = JOY!!!)<meta equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; 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style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Blog Delivery Notice:<span style=""> </span></span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">For those who were wondering why you received five weeks worth of my blog last week . . . It took us a while to figure out why they were not being delivered in the first place, and then all backlogged posts were delivered at once.<span style=""> </span>Hopefully, this won’t occur again.<span style=""> </span>Sorry for any confusion.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p><span style="text-decoration: none;"> </span></o:p></span></u></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Weekly Inspiration:</span></u></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><span style=""> </span><a href="http://www.hayhouse.com/details.php?ref=LHWEB&id=4310">You Can Do It! (click)</a> Affirmation by Louise Hay from her 2010 calendar:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><b style=""><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">“Sharing who I really am with others thrills my heart.<span style=""> </span>The mystery of me unfolds in new ways every day.”<span style=""> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">When I speak about leadership development, I often say it all boils down to character and competence.<span style=""> </span>For those of you who have worked with us, the character portion is described as your “Inner Guidance System”:<span style=""> </span>unique ability, personal mission & values and passions.<span style=""> </span>While sharing this information is uncomfortable at first, the people you are asking to follow your lead want to know this.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">This is particularly true when you have a new leadership assignment.<span style=""> </span>One of my favorite leadership books is:<span style=""> </span><u>The Leader’s Legacy</u> by Kouzes and Posner.<span style=""> </span>Chapter 11 is entitled “Leading From the Inside Out.”<span style=""> </span>Authentic leadership does not come from the outside-in.<span style=""> </span>It comes from the inside-out. Inside-out leadership means becoming the author of your own story and the making of your own history. Or, as we say:<span style=""> </span>“In Search of Adventure.”<span style=""> </span>Kouzes and Posner goes on further to say that people tell them they want to ask the new leader these questions:<o:p></o:p></span></li><ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="circle"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Who are you?<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">What do you stand for and believe in?<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Where do you want to take us?<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Why you?<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">What qualifies you for the job?<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">What makes you think you can do this?<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Do you really know what you are getting yourself into?<o:p></o:p></span></li><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">What changes are you planning to make?<o:p></o:p></span></li></ul></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><u><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Special Edition:<span style=""> </span>The Leadership Lessons of Tiger Woods</span></u></b><b style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"> -<u><o:p></o:p></u></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">Like many of you, I have watched the Tiger Woods story unfold since his Thanksgiving Day massacre.<span style=""> </span>I watched his apology a couple of times and asked those around me what their reactions were.<span style=""> </span>Being and working in the addiction field for more than four decades, I understand some of what Tiger is experiencing and the lessons he is struggling to come to terms with:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <ol style="margin-top: 0in;" start="1" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Integrity – living consistent with your values.<span style=""> </span>A quote I use from Bill George’s book:<span style=""> </span><u>True North</u> now is more understandable.<span style=""> </span><i style="">“<span style="">Character without capacity usually means weakness in a leader, but capacity without character means danger.”<span style=""> </span></span></i><span style="">The same rules do apply to all of us - especially our own rules.<span style=""> </span>With a little luck, they will save us.</span><o:p></o:p></span></li></ol> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><i style=""><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></i></p> <ol style="margin-top: 0in;" start="2" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Balance (physical, mental, emotional & spiritual) – where passions become obsessions.<span style=""> </span>For many of us, it’s around work.<span style=""> </span>How many times have I heard:<span style=""> </span>“I love my work” from the hospital bed?<o:p></o:p></span></li></ol> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <ol style="margin-top: 0in;" start="3" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="color: navy; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">The “bubble” we live in, especially those with power, fame and/or fortune.<span style=""> </span>Who do we have surrounding us that will tell us the truth?<span style=""> </span>We think we are getting it, but are we really?<o:p></o:p></span></li></ol> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; color: navy;">What are the leadership lessons from your perspective?<span style=""> </span>Please share them.<o:p></o:p></span></p> Thomas Bradyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10561098120354297044noreply@blogger.com0